Research-Based Relationship Coaching
Your relationship deserves to thrive through every new chapter
Whether you've just said "I do" or you're navigating the beautiful chaos of new parenthood — I help couples understand how they're wired together and build a lasting connection grounded in science.
Who I Work With
Relationships at a turning point
Life's biggest milestones are also the moments when relationship dynamics shift most. I specialize in helping couples navigate these transitions — proactively and with confidence.
New & Expecting Parents
A baby changes everything — sleep, intimacy, identity, priorities. Most couples are shocked by how much strain this puts on their relationship. You don't have to figure it out alone.
- Feeling more like co-managers than partners
- Intimacy and connection fading under exhaustion
- Unspoken resentments building over division of labor
- Losing your identity as a couple
Newlyweds & Engaged Couples
The early years of marriage set the patterns that last a lifetime. Investing in your relationship now — before challenges escalate — is the most powerful thing you can do.
- Merging different communication styles
- Aligning on values, goals, and expectations
- Building healthy conflict resolution habits early
- Creating a shared vision for your future
My Approach
Where organizational science meets love
My published research examined something deceptively simple: when two people share — or differ in — personality and values, how does that shape their long-term satisfaction and commitment? I studied this in professional settings. But the psychology is identical in romantic ones.
That research became the backbone of my coaching. Understanding how your personalities interact, where your values align, and where they diverge isn't just interesting — it's the key to building a relationship that lasts.
- Personality Dynamics
- Values Alignment
- Conflict Management
- Trust & Intimacy
- Shared Vision
- Long-term Commitment
| Traditional Therapy | My Approach |
|---|---|
| Focuses on past wounds | Builds present skills |
| Reactive (when broken) | Proactive (before crisis) |
| Analyzes problems | Applies proven techniques |
| 35–50% success rate | Research-grounded methods |
| Generic compatibility frameworks | Personality & values science |
| Generic framework | Personalized to your relationship |
Workshop Options
Choose your path forward
Both workshops are fully personalized to your relationship. Most couples start with Foundation and upgrade — or book both as a package from the start.
Foundation Coaching
$500
- Detailed analysis of your relationship foundation: friendship, teamwork, trust & romance
- Personalized relationship wellness guide with techniques, exercises & games
- Two coaching sessions focused on your future relationship development
- Ideal for newlyweds or couples wanting a relationship health check
Premium Coaching
$2,000
- Everything in Foundation Coaching
- Deep analysis of conflict patterns and how to resolve them
- Exploration of relationship values, goals, and expectations
- Personalized conflict management guide and relationship future map
- Eight coaching sessions plus a detailed follow-up plan
- Especially recommended for new parents navigating big transitions
Both workshops can be booked as a package deal. Not sure which is right for you? Let's talk.
Client Stories
What couples say
Navigating the waters of new parenthood while keeping the romantic spark alive was a challenge until we met Dr. Byza. Her practical solutions and empathetic approach have been a game-changer for us. We're deeply grateful for her guidance and have confidently recommended her workshops to our friends who are also embarking on the journey of parenthood.
Choosing Dr. Byza's workshop was one of the best decisions for our marriage. Its research-based methodology provided us with practical techniques to enhance our daily lives and a deeper understanding of each other's needs.
My partner and I not only discovered enjoyable and effective tools to enrich our bond but also prepared ourselves for future challenges. Her workshop was an invaluable preventive measure.
- 2017Dr. rer. nat. in Psychology — University of BielefeldA purely research-based doctorate awarded for original scientific contribution.
- 2015Stanford Continuing StudiesCounseling Psychology
- 2012M.A. Organizational Psychology & CoachingCoaching practice launched — 12+ years of client work
- 2008B.A. Media Psychology
- ResearchPublished Research on Human CompatibilityPersonality & values alignment → satisfaction & commitment · Journal of Organizational Behavior · Journal of Business Ethics · Academy of Management Proceedings
About Dr. Byza
From organizational science to relationship coaching
My path to relationship coaching started somewhere you might not expect: the workplace. For years, I published research on how personality similarities and differences between two people affect their long-term satisfaction and commitment — in professional partnerships. What I found, again and again, was that the same psychological forces driving success or friction at work were the very ones shaping romantic relationships.
That realization changed my focus. I began studying what the science of human compatibility — values alignment, personality dynamics, patterns of commitment — looks like inside a marriage. Combined with my doctorate in psychology and over a decade of coaching, I built a method that translates this research into something couples can actually use.
My workshops don't ask you to revisit childhood wounds or analyze where things went wrong. They give you a clear picture of how you and your partner are wired — where you naturally complement each other and where you'll need to build bridges — and then give you the tools to do exactly that.
A note on credentials & scope
My doctorate (Dr. rer. nat.) is a research degree in psychology from the University of Bielefeld — not a clinical qualification. I am a coach, not a licensed psychologist or therapist, and my work is intentionally designed that way: skills-based, proactive, and grounded in research. When individual therapy is also appropriate, I refer clients to trusted specialists in my network.
Transparency
Is coaching right for you — or do you need therapy?
It's a fair question and I want to answer it honestly. Coaching and therapy serve different needs. Here's how to think about it — and when I'll refer you to someone else.
Traditional Therapy
- You're processing trauma or grief
- Untreated mental health conditions are present
- One or both partners need deep personal healing
- Crisis intervention is needed
- Clinical diagnosis or treatment is required
Dr. Byza's Coaching
- You want to strengthen your relationship
- You're navigating a major transition (new baby, marriage)
- You want to build skills before challenges escalate
- You're proactive, not in crisis
- You want practical tools grounded in research
My doctorate (Dr. rer. nat.) is a research degree in psychology — not a clinical license. I am a coach, not a licensed psychologist or therapist. If therapy is what you need, I'll tell you directly and connect you with the right specialist.
Ready to invest in your relationship?
Book a free 30-minute consultation. No pressure — just a conversation about where you are and what might help.